Hi dear! I wish you are having a nice day. Today we will talk about something that might make you feel a little bit uncomfortable, but for the greater good, it's important to address. Even after being the most brilliant and evolved species, sometimes we count ourselves in the same category as animals for our stupidity.

Animals have sex solely for the sake of reproduction, they can’t distinguish sexual pleasure and mating separately. But humans can, and yet sometimes they let some stupid taboos take over their logical thinking capacity. You might be clueless about the issue. Let me explain it to you.

Some people love having sex, apart from the physical need they see it as an art of sensuality that deeply attracts them. And then comes the second type of people, who treats specific sexual affairs as a taboo, and fuck their partners in the most boring way possible.

Cunnilingus

According to studies, 94% of women are not sexually satisfied even after having a partner. But interestingly, when the same studies estimate the percentage of sexually satisfied men, it’s around 98% But what is the reason behind this huge gap? I’ve heard a lot of men saying that it’s nearly impossible for a guy to sexually satisfy a woman. Is it the case? I don’t think so.

If you ask a girl who has a sex life, about the last time she had an orgasm. The answer wouldn’t be so cheerful. Girls don’t reach climax as fast as men. So, it’s normal that the guy would cum first and then he’s supposed to keep pleasing his girl until she meets the climax. But unfortunately, that’s a rare case scenario. Guys who grew up watching porn, think that porn is the mirror of real sex life. And mainstream taboo porn doesn’t give a fuck about women’s climax once the guy is done.

Where is the balance?

Lovemaking is a reciprocal act, but where is the balance? There are still a large number of guys who crave sex, yet are not ready to please their girl with tongue. And some even feel it gross to lick a pussy. Guys who don’t know, let me tell you that female orgasm is either penetrate or clitoral. For women who only have a clitoral orgasm, it's quite impossible for them to cum without getting good cunnilingus. Women need much more than mere penetration to reach climax.

Those same men enjoy watching porn and seeing a girl getting cunnilingus on video, while they're not willing when it comes to themselves. What hypocrisy! Maybe that's what we call taboofantazy. Now just imagine if your girl refuses to give you a blowjob when you’re extremely horny. That won’t feel superb, right! That’s the same case for them too!

The true secret of great sex life is nothing but reciprocity and sensitivity. Nobody is born with experience; the performance can be developed. But you need to be willing and concerned in the first place about your partner's satisfaction. The best way is to take care of each other's physical satisfaction over one's own. In that way, both would be satisfied and the intimacy would be developed. Whoever has unrealistic expectations from their partner by watching porn, get over it buddy! Spontaneity is real and rare. Don’t fail it over some scripted videos like Bettie Bondage.

Indeed, we don't stay with someone for good sex. It’s the emotions, mental connection and intimacy that make us stay together. But one can't compromise with their biological need for their entire life. If you care about the bond, let your actions show that. And I believe you can rock it! Have a nice day.